250120070011THE MINDSET

So what is this “mindset” that everyone is talking about? It seems to me to be a word that is being used more frequently in today’s society, all over the world, or is it just another cliche?  what is it? does this “right mindset” have a description?

As a result of my observation and study, I have come to the understanding that a person’s “Mindset” is an indication of future success or failure.

Henry Ford once  said that “whether a person thinks he can or he can’t he is right. ” Now there was an individual with the right mindset. He would never accept defeat, the word “impossible” was not in his vocabulary, hence he was able to accomplish what most men would not even attempt to dream about.

Mindset Ingredients

In order to have this right mindset, three things have to be in the mix.

1. Ground yourself in the fact that you will accomplish what you desire.

2. You must be willing to “pay the price” to accomplish your desire.

3. See yourself as already having accomplished your desire.

The first ingredient pertains to having the knowledge that come “hell or high water” you will succeed. Whatever it is that you truly want in your life be it personal, physical, emotional or spiritual, you must and will attain it.  Removing all doubt and fear from within and focusing all your energy on the prize. Having the faith which is the substance of things not seen and the evidence of things to come, in your God given ability to be, do and have all that you want to be, do and have. Know that YOU create your own circumstances, as Napoleon Bonapart rightly said “circumstance, I create them”.
The second ingredient involves being willing to do not just your best, but whatever is required, ethically, to succeed. You may need to find the right people who can assist you in accomplishing your dream, find them, you will be led to them. This is one of the “secrets” in the Law Of Attraction.

It is more than just “thinking” of something and believing it will come to you automatically. There is some “doing” involved and when you begin to do what is required of you, then the people who can assist you and guide you into the path of your success will suddenly come into your life. This is an absolute truth as it has happened to me time and time again, and each time I am amazed at the outcome.

You may also have to remove yourself from the company of negative individuals, whether they are friends or family members, which may make it even more difficult but that is a part of the “price” you must pay.

Negative and positive energy can never and will never coexist. You must find yourself in the company of like minded individuals who can brainstorm with you ideas that come to you, these people will be your mastermind group. If you surround yourself with negative thinking people they will “suck” the life out of you and lead you into a depressed state, you then become as negative as they are, they are poison to your bones so remove yourself from their atmosphere, immediately.

The third ingredient involves “seeing” yourself as already having, doing or becoming whatever it is that you want. You must be able to see yourself achieving your goals, feel it, smell it, taste it and begin to “live it”.

Visualize your triumph with passion. If you need help, get pictures of the things you want to have, cut them out and create a “vision board” and keep it close to your work station or someplace that you can easily and readily see it.

Your intention must be clear as this will solidify your goals. Write them down and begin to take the necessary steps to accomplish each goal. This may probably be one of the more difficult aspects of the whole process as you will need to have a “pit bull” tenacity to stick to the process, this is the “mindset” which I call your level of “stick-to-it-tive-ness” where the rubber meets the metal.

Your actions may be slow, but they must be deliberate, no matter how small they are, stay the course. Keep your goal in front of you, if you run into an obstacle, refine and re-define your action steps and act accordingly.

Falling does not make one a failure, it is one’s failure to get up from a fall, that makes him/her a failure.

I hope these few words make some sort of sense, to someone.

I welcome your comments.

Regards,

Dean Wong.

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